Truth or Dare what gives you more energy? Someone admits as a truth they secretly admired you. Feels nice, warm. OR They became daring and come to you with flowers and a bold statement of’ I have been admiring you from afar’. Same or Different?
Bold statements shock and surprise us. Who doesn’t like a surprise now and then. It has energy and excitement. It perturbs our predictable or usual state. It’s like an injection of vitamins, puts a smile on your face, your hormones get happy.
BeverlyD as the Dominatrix of Beauty
Sometimes when people are daring or appear bold, they are accused of being a rebel, think Madonna, Bob Dylan, heck I certainly have been accused of that and I remember in the 80″s feeling wronged by that statement. I needed to conform.
Yea I saw what that did to me. I got caught up in being average then I gained weight and got uglier…I grew my hair, I got a boyfriend, I became so ordinary and my life became very predictable and had a look associated with that future, Yuck. Then I found my Daring again.
First, I had to find my fellow rebels, Madonna, music business, karaoke, short skirts, Germans, traveling, a far-out life mentor, peach orange hair! That’s the girl! I became older and bolder. The GREAT thing about this is that when people from my past see me now they always are a bit shocked and say I haven’t aged a bit. It’s true I have been getting younger as I get older.
Daring to be involves doing…doing is action, action creates more energy.Practicing, getting curious, expanding your world view, is how you train for daring. You get out of your box and jump into the triangle. This is how you evolve to being daring. Because now there is no effort in being daring. I am daring!
As we end our year, how can you preparing for a daring future? Who would you like to be in the company of? What clothes would you daringly wear? What BOLD statement do you want to make? This is how to prepare yourself for your new year REVOLUTION.
BeverlyD as her one woman show character
TELL THE TRUTH OR TAKE THE DARE!
Take the Dare this year…go for it…the energy derived from getting out of that box is what changes the world.! Happy New Year! Be the REVOLUTION you want to see!